Showing posts with label weight loss and support. Show all posts
Showing posts with label weight loss and support. Show all posts

Thursday, 4 August 2011

The Obesity Crisis?


The obesity crisis. The crisis is not about obesity - it's about people's relationship with food and the food industry. All the focus is on people losing weight. Doctors put patients on diets and send them to slimming clubs, the main aim being for them to come back a few months later slimmer, lighter. That’s how they measure success. I heard on the radio today that the government is “promoting body building as way of improving the health of the nation”. What?! How do they equate the two? Body building has never and will never equal good health! Being strong and having pumped up muscles is NOT the same as being healthy. There is no evidence, not a shred that I can find, to support the idea that body builders have fewer health problems or live longer, healthier lives than people who do a moderate amount of exercise…

By focusing on obesity the doctors and the government are missing the point. By measuring results in pounds/kilos lost and BMI they are, as ever, dealing with the symptom and not the problem. The problem, as I know you know, is not the weight - it’s the way we eat. And the problem is not fixed simply by the losing the weight. Through conventional diets 98% of people who lose weight (and many of them don’t even manage it!) put all the weight back on within 2 years! People’s health is not improved by dieting. People’s health is improved by eating well and being active. Yes, if people eat too much they will be overweight and that may impact their health. By developing a healthy and balanced relationship with food and their bodies, they will eat what they need, find ways to be physically active and lose weight - but you can’t just take short cuts and hope that if we just get people to lose the weight, without understanding what drives them to overeat, what the real problems are, without changing long term habits and choices, they will be healthier too! Yo-yo-ing up and down in weight has been proven to be more unhealthy than being consistently (but stably) overweight. By putting pressure on women to lose weight without giving them the necessary tools and support to address the reasons why they overeat or make food choices that cause weight gain, we are increasing their stress levels - as they feel guilty and ashamed about their supposed lack of self control and discipline. Not only does stress play a big part in ill-health, but the constant failure to lose weight often sees women giving up and... eating more! My point is that continuing to address the symptom is a dangerous waste of time and money which compounds the problem and creates more weight gain. What we have to offer at Beyond Chocolate is an approach which empowers women to take control of their eating, to make lasting, sustainable choices and to feel good about themselves. We address the real crisis - the way we eat, the reasons we overeat, the way we use food and the reasons underpinning our habits and behaviors. And over and over again we have had clients whose health has improved as a result of following the Beyond Chocolate principles, regardless of whether or not they have lost weight! Even their doctors have agreed! The thing is it takes time and that's not sexy. There's no dramatic transformation. It's a slow process and often things get worse before they get better.

Our new book, Beyond Temptation, takes the Beyond Chocolate principles to the next level, guiding women to really understand their overeating, recognising their triggers and patterns, so that they are in a position to stop turning to food as a salve, a comfort, a treat... so that they can make food choices which are both healthy and satisfying... so that they can say no to junk food, not because it’s ‘bad’ or forbidden, but because they care enough about themselves to use food as a way of nourishing their bodies rather than as a way of punishing, numbing, treating or soothing themselves. When we address the real issues, we find real solutions and there are real, lasting benefits.

This September we are planning to undertake a study of the Beyond Chocolate approach. We’ll be taking a group of overeaters who have been told they need to lose weight to be healthier and we will support and guide them for six months. Alongside them the will be a control group who will be doing the usual diets. And we’ll see what the results are, after six months, after a year, after two years...

The crisis is not about obesity. That’s like saying that the best way to reduce crime and stop burglars from robbing houses is to teach them the difference between honesty and dishonesty. To teach them how to make a living the honest way. Like they don’t know? Really? As if there are not complex social and personal reasons why criminals behave the way they do. Just like teaching people about ‘healthy eating’ - hands up who doesn’t know what’s healthy?? We don’t need more information and teaching. We need support, guidance, understanding and compassion. We need to know that we’ll get to the root of the problem rather than staying on the surface and making it all look good. Rather than focusing on people looking good. Criminals are much less likely to re-offend when they are met by someone who sees the crime as a symptom and offers support, guidance and opportunities (rather than simply punishment) to make changes to their lives. Locking them away may solve the immediate problem but it doesn't address the issues, it sweeps them under the carpet, it costs a fortune and it leaves us with many unhappy unfulfilled human beings. Putting people on diets, focusing on weight loss, is just the same. It’s time the powers that be addressed the real issues underpinning the ‘Obesity Crisis’ and stopped looking for quick fixes that make their data and records (and people) look good! And besides, the quick fixes aren't even working. Apparently the epidemic is growing. It’s time they acknowledged that they are losing the war because they are fighting the wrong battles with the wrong weapons. If they could just stop fighting, stop waging a war against FAT, they would see that there are real people, with real issues who need real help. They would acknowledge that the sugar lobbies, the corn syrup manufacturers and the food industry in general have far too much power and are selling us food that isn't even food and that there's no way people can lose weight sustainably on a diet of pretend nourishment (next week's blog post I think!). As I write I know how naive that is. And I won’t stop clamouring for it anyway :-)

What would you say to this government if it asked for your opinion on what to do about the so-called Obesity Crisis?



Wednesday, 25 May 2011

Beyond Chocolate Mistake number 8 – Thinking we can do it on our own



Gretel Hallet, is a trained Chocolate Fairy and is running the Getting Started half day workshop in Norwich. If you live in East Anglia and want to know more about Beyond Chocolate, get in touch with Gretel.


As I’ve said before on this blog, diet clubs have sprung up like low-fat, low-calorie mushrooms all round the town where I live. Their cheerful notices feature a slim woman crouching by a set of weighing scales and give details of the nearest club to the notice. One of the reasons I suspect that these diet clubs are so popular is because they offer dieters a chance to be in a room with other people in the same boat. And we like being with other people who speak the same language as us, understand the issues we are facing, sympathise with our failures and celebrate our successes – they understand. 

From what I gather from women who attend these groups, they go mostly for the support, not necessarily for the products or the weighing in etc. I have even met women who carry on going to the classes even if they’re not actively dieting, because they enjoy the support and company of women who speak their language – and, as I’m sure you all know, the language of dieting is very pervasive among women. 

Beyond Chocolate Principle Number 9 is ‘Support Yourself’. Right at the end of the list, along with ‘Be Your Own Guru’, these principles can be overlooked by ex-dieters keen to get to grips with formerly forbidden foods and developing their own self-awareness. But these principles are just as important as the earlier, more ‘sexy’ ones. 

If we attempt to work with the Beyond Chocolate principles without input from other like-minded women, we run the risk of becoming isolated, feeling hopeless and eventually giving up and re-enrolling in our former diet class with our former diet buddies (they’ll all still be there!). 

We are social animals, we humans; we need the company of others and particularly those who are walking the same way as us. Swimming against the tide is for salmon! Being a Beyond Chocolater can be a lonely thing; we are still comparatively rare – so when there is a chance of meeting up with others, we should seize it with both hands. 

Spending time with other Beyond Chocolaters is a wonderfully reviving experience – even spending half an hour a day on the Forum can re-vitalise us and, perhaps, nudge us gently back on track if we’ve been veering off into a cul-de-sac of diet-ridden despair. 

Even if we’ve been working with Beyond Chocolate for some time, it’s still vitally important to seek that validation and support from other women, particularly from those who are just setting out – they can have some startlingly valuable insights into things we may have forgotten about. 

Being with other Beyond Chocolaters is one of the best ways to ‘Support’ ourselves – so I would encourage you all to look at the list of courses available across the country and see if you can get to one of them – you certainly won’t regret it. If there isn't a course near you, take a look at our membership which gives you access to the forum and monthly phone-ins.
 
Above all, support yourself – it’s harder to do anything alone. 

How do you support yourself?